How to behave at a girl friend's wedding to a fraudulent man

As the famous saying goes a friend in need is a friend indeed there are occasions when we have to act and behave somewhat strange for the benefits of our loved ones. Instead of keeping quiet when your loved ones are being tempted to become the hunt of some fraudulent man, try your best to warn them about the possible threat. But before doing that, there are a number of points that can better guide you about the possible move you should make.

First, of all make sure that the person you consider fraudulent is really, fraudulent and it is not just your misconception. Moreover, consider that whether the person is still sticking with the previous activities or has he molded himself into a civilized and reliable person. If you had a bad experience with someone, that does not mean that one is really a freak, it could only be your misperception.

Secondly, see how the parents and elders of your friend perceive that person to be. That is what that would explain you briefly about how to behave at a girl friend's wedding to a fraudulent man. Real life is far different from a movie or drama and you should not be insane enough to create some scene. Besides the elders, it is important to consider what your friend thinks of the man she is going to marry. If the family is quite satisfied with the person, you had better not to say anything; otherwise, you would be blamed for being jealous of your friend.

An important point here to notice is the cultural background of your friend. Some times the concern family is quite civilized and it would not like its daughter to marry a fraudulent person. However, sometimes, like in Indian culture, marriage is a matter of life and death, and once the guests are arrived or even the cards have been distributed, a family has to accept the bridegroom regardless of his reputation in the society. Therefore, if you only get to know about the person right at the wedding day of your friend and whose fraudulence you have observed, try only sharing with parents of your girl friend, as they might be in the better situation to provide some solution for the problem.

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