How to deal with a sister who doesn't want her own brother and sister at her weddingConflicts among siblings are part of life and when they grow up all these conflicts start resolving in an automatic way. However, sometimes it also happens that a sibling of ours does not find her or himself good at anger management, reacts in extreme ways and remain angry for long. Generally, such siblings are left at their own until they start behaving in a normal way, or, some elders are asked for help to bring the good terms back. People do not take fights and conflicts among siblings quite seriously unless it starts causing serious affects.
The present article of ours is about dealing with a situation where a sister is quite angry with her brother and sister and is not willing to allow them even to attend her wedding ceremony. Well, such kind of situation is not something easy to tackle; however, following points may help you getting control of the situation in an appropriate way.
First of all try getting your parents as well as other relatives involved in it and ask them to make her understand that despite of all your disputes after all you are her siblings. She can very well continue with her grudge once after the wedding ceremony is over, but as this is the family function, it is the right of her siblings to attend the marriage with complete zeal and zest.
Secondly, the siblings should also try saying sorry to her over the issues that have made her that much angry. They should realize her that despite of all the disputes they love her very much and want to participate in her big day as nothing else can make them as happy as watching their sister to start a new wonderful life. As a famous saying goes, ‘love begets love’ if they would apologize, chances are there that she would at least allow them to participate in the wedding.
Last but not the least, if the girl is independent, and getting married at her own, the siblings may not find them self in the position to persuade her returning to good terms. There are chances that they may not be able to attend the wedding either, but still it is very important to realize the depth of their love for her. Lastly, whether they attend the wedding or not, they should try sending her apologizing notes along with beautiful gifts. If they can send her some touchy words about relationship with siblings before her wedding, that may do the work for them and their dispute may get resolved.